How to Heal from Childhood Trauma: A Compassionate Guide for Adult Survivors

This guide offers practical strategies, emotional support and insights to help adult survivors move forward with hope and confidence.

How to Heal from Childhood Trauma: A Compassionate Guide for Adult Survivors

At NAPAC, we support adult survivors of childhood abuse and trauma. We know that healing is possible, but we know that it isn’t always straightforward. If you’ve ever asked yourself how to heal from trauma, you’re not alone. 

Healing from Childhood Trauma Isn’t Linear - And That’s Okay

Healing from childhood trauma can feel like a rollercoaster. Progress doesn’t always mean moving forward in a straight line. You might hit a plateau. You might feel like you’re going backwards. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed – it means you’re in the middle of a very real, very human healing journey.

Survivors often talk about the fatigue that comes from living with the effects of trauma. The emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion isn’t just from healing – it’s from carrying the weight of trauma every day. Feeling tired and worn down is a very real part of this experience. But it’s important to remember that this exhaustion doesn’t mean you’re broken. You are not alone, and there is support to help you through.

How to Heal from Trauma: Practical Ways to Begin

1. Get Professional Support from a Trauma-Informed Therapist

Therapy is a cornerstone of healing from trauma. A qualified therapist can help you unpack your experiences safely and supportively. There are different therapies for different needs – like CBT, EMDR, trauma-focused therapy and many other methodologies.

Medication may also help manage symptoms like anxiety, depression or PTSD, especially when combined with therapy. Your GP or mental health provider can help you explore what’s right for you.

At NAPAC, we offer free and confidential support calls of up to 30 minutes. We don’t provide ongoing therapy, but many survivors find these calls helpful for navigating the steps between recognising the trauma and accessing long-term support.

2. Prioritise Self-Care in Your Healing Journey ​

Healing from childhood trauma requires tending to your whole self. Here’s what that might look like: 

  • Rest – Recovery takes energy. Prioritising rest isn’t lazy – it’s necessary. 
     
  • Stay Active – Gentle movement, like yoga or walking, helps regulate your nervous system. 
     
  • Create Routine – Regular meals, sleep and structure help create safety and stability. 
     
  • Use Mindfulness – Grounding, deep breathing and meditation can calm your mind. 
     
  • Connect with Others – Trusted friends, family or support groups can remind you you’re not alone. 
     
  • Avoid Numbing – Alcohol or drugs may dull pain in the short term, but often make healing harder in the long run.

3. Take Small Steps to Process the Past

When you’re asking how to heal from childhood trauma, it’s important to know that you don’t need to relive every memory or confront everything at once.

Start Small – Focus on one thing at a time. Healing takes time and space.

Talk When You’re Ready – Share your story when it feels safe, with someone who listens without judgment.

Feel Your Feelings – Let yourself feel sadness, anger, grief. These are valid responses to pain.

4. Focus on Long-Term Healing and Growth

Healing from trauma isn’t about fixing something broken, because you are not broken. Your responses were natural reactions to deeply unnatural circumstances. You don’t need to be fixed – you are enough, just as you are. Healing is about finding relief, feeling better, and reclaiming your sense of peace. 

  • Be Patient – Healing takes time and it’s okay if progress isn’t always steady. Setbacks don’t mean you’re failing -they’re part of the process. Celebrate the small wins, no matter how small they seem. Every step forward, every moment of self-care, every time you choose to keep going. It all matters. 
     
  • Stay Present – To heal, you may need to face your past – to acknowledge it, understand it, and gently process what happened. But you don’t have to stay there. You are here, in the present. Healing is about finding safety in the now and creating the life you deserve today. 
     
  • Set Realistic Goals – Even small goals like making your bed or getting outside can make a difference. 
     
  • Practice Self-Compassion – Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you’d offer a close friend. Healing from trauma is hard, and you deserve care. Speak gently to yourself, especially on the tough days. You’ve survived so much, and that strength deserves compassion. 
     
  • Find Meaning and Purpose – Healing isn’t just about feeling less pain – it’s about feeling more connected to life. Whether through creativity, relationships or helping others, you can find purpose in ways that feel right for you. Even small moments of meaning can bring hope and help you reconnect with who you are beyond the trauma. 
     

You’re Not Alone in Healing from Childhood Trauma 

If you’re navigating how to heal from trauma, or trying to understand the path of healing from childhood trauma, please know this: there is hope. You’re not doing it wrong. You’re healing in your own way, at your own pace.

At NAPAC, we’re here to walk alongside you. Our free support line is open to any adult survivor of childhood abuse. We offer a listening ear, compassion and guidance when you’re ready to take the next step.

Call us on 0808 801 0331 or email support@napac.org.uk to speak with someone who understands.

We are here for you! Call our support line at

0808 801 0331

We are a very small team and it can be difficult to get through. Please try at different times rather than re-dialling repeatedly as our team dedicate time to finish each call. We offer 30 minutes of supportive listening with signposting if that is relevant to your needs, but we cannot offer on-going support or counselling.

We also offer support by email – support@napac.org.uk

NAPAC’s series of booklets for survivors and those who support them are free to download
and are also available in audio format.